I think I may have figured out the counterjinx to being asked The Question.
Me: "Honey, if you handle all the night wakings, I'll get up with them in the morning and let you sleep"
I forgot about this very powerful tool. Every time I've made this deal with J*, they never wake in the night. Never. I'm feeling very well rested today. This is good because we're checking out our first daycare provider later today. I'm a little nervous.
*I don't get to make this deal very often because J works a late shift and isn't home until midnight or later if there's overtime.